What to do when you miss the person you love so much

May 23, 2014

1. Don't stress if communication is not possible. Take into account where they are. If they're cut off from technology, stop waiting for the phone to ring or for them to sign on to AIM. You know it won't happen, so why stress it? Even if they might have computer or phone access, don't wait by the phone for hours or be signed into AIM every free second. It'll only make you miss them more.

2. Distract yourself. Plan a night with friends to get your mind off your significant other. If all your friends seem to have deserted you too, get out of the house. Go to the mall or the grocery store. Take a walk. Mail that package you "forgot" about.

3. Know that while it may not seem that way, they'll be back soon. If you find yourself missing them, tell yourself that and find something else to do/think about.

4. If none of these tips work, consider finding out if the next time your significant other is on a trip, you can find some way to either go with them or vacation near where they'll be. For example, if they'll be in (or near) a big city like Los Angeles or New York, you could probably go with them and have fun. Or if they're near only near a big city, you could visit the city and just drop in for a visit.

5. Don't act as if you won't survive without them. It only makes the situation worse. Sure, you miss them, but there are other important things in life.

6. Do little things that make you feel closer to him/her–wear his jackets, eat at your favorite restaurant, or look at pictures. It's comforting to go back through good memories.

7. Try and do something special for his or her return. Planning it will help channel your excitement and keep you distracted, as well as make you feel like they'll be back sooner.

8. Don't talk to friends about how much you miss your significant other unless you know that they will be understanding and actually comfort you. People telling you to "get over it" often don't understand that feeling of missing someone intensely and will make you feel worse. 
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  7. Reply  

    Ajay Agnihotri

    May 24, 2014

    Very beautiful post Jendhamuni. ..I like above lines. .specifically 5/6..thanks for sharing. ..have a great day ahead.

  10. Reply  

    Albe Gone

    May 24, 2014

    Mmmm?  What do I do, "when my love is not near and communication is not possible.  I GO NUTS.  LOLOL

  20. Reply  

    Elsie Ven

    May 24, 2014

    i will tend to forget him why?bcos i cant get through the day wen i miss him

  28. Reply  

    Dennis Pearce

    May 24, 2014

    Not to be a jerk but you could have saved space and time by saying, "Don't be a creepy stalker".

  46. Reply  

    Devi Jockers

    May 24, 2014

    Hmmm…nice tips and quotes..yes think somethings else so u dont have to miss this person;)

  55. Reply  

    garylee joy

    May 24, 2014

    Sometimes life has its moments. Thank you Jendhamuni Sos, my friend. (^-^)

  58. Reply  

    pantangi ramakrishna

    May 24, 2014

    It's true. taking to consider my life ten years back iam divorced still I love him still she is unmarried long gap is there now days With greatest communication iam trying to explain my thoughts and my planns

  59. Reply  

    sheryl mayers

    May 24, 2014

    i lik tat line ….

     you miss them, but there are other important things in life…… its so true na u dnt give importance to ur self i all off this …

  61. Reply  

    lisa orosco

    May 24, 2014

    Just think the person and reminisce sweet m'mories, take a deep breath. Wish he would be around.

  63. Reply  

    darianne montgomery

    May 24, 2014

    It sucks but if y'all are meant to be then y'all will find a way back to each other

  64. Reply  

    Jayesh Thakkar

    May 24, 2014

    Missing loved one is a great chapter of love. Good morning SOS.

  68. Reply  

    David Gery

    May 24, 2014

    Beautiful post the photo is so beautiful and words so amazing, thank you so much. Have a wonderful day.

  72. Reply  

    Nu Raa

    May 24, 2014

    thanks Sis, i just deactivated my fb, removed my Viber, kakao talk …
    im missing him so much but he was busy ..it's Saturday night ..i just want lil more time to talk with him but i didn't get it ..
    but i saw a romantic birthday wishes from him for his girl friend on fb … Im jealous … deeply jealous
    and Im feel hurts…
    any advice for me sis ?!
    Im so possessive about him… and i almost getting hurts 🙁
    🙁
    🙁

  74. Reply  

    Geraldine Lim

    May 24, 2014

    Nu raa, are you two in a relationship or just one sided?

  78. Reply  

    Nu Raa

    May 24, 2014

    Geraldine …. Im in two relationship

  90. Reply  

    Ajaita Singh

    May 24, 2014

    U are naver evar miss u becoues he or she allways in u r heart ya in mind

  116. Reply  

    Johnny Patton Jr.

    May 25, 2014

    Thank so much. These help me! She is only 10 minutes away. Her mother does not like me. Catherine is trying To love both sides, I hope!!!

  130. Reply  

    Reena Verma

    May 26, 2014

    Dear whatever you said is ok but tell me how to make him understand that someone is missing him

  132. Reply  

    ANILBHAI N KANIK

    May 26, 2014

    No

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  135. Reply  

    ANILBHAI N KANIK

    May 26, 2014

    Not good feel

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  136. Reply  

    ANILBHAI N KANIK

    May 26, 2014

    Not good feel

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  137. Reply  

    ANILBHAI N KANIK

    May 26, 2014

    Not good feel nathing in the world .

    Sent from Samsung Mobile

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  138. Reply  

    ANILBHAI N KANIK

    May 26, 2014

    Not good feel nathing in the world .

    Sent from Samsung Mobile

    ——– Original message ——–

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