From time to time, sit close to the one you love, hold his or her hand, and ask, 'Darling, do I understand you enough? Or am I making you suffer? Please tell me so that I can learn to love you properly. I don't want to make you suffer, and if I do so because of my ignorance, please tell me so that I can love you better, so that you can be happy." If you say this in a voice that communicates your real openness to understand, the other person may cry.
That is a good sign, because it means the door of understanding is opening and everything will be possible again.
We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love. We must look deeply in order to see and understand the needs, aspirations, and suffering of the person we love. This is the ground of real love. You cannot resist loving another person when you really understand him or her. ~Thich Nha Hanh
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Shah Alam
V.v.v.nice and so many thanks
Diwang Lepcha
Good Morning So Beautiful Post
Jaime Teixeira
Beautiful image place
Carlos Bation
Thanks to UR messages ..I appreciate..sleep well..hug and kisses..take UR time..Ingat my Lovely Lady
Michael Cammock
Understanding comes with maturity and length of time together….
Billy youngwolf Floyd
I love this advise and the scene is paradise😃😃😃
Mariano Nalin
Couldn't agree more. Thank you for sharing
Jayesh Thakkar
You are right Jen there are some differences between dialogues and communications . Have a successful day ahead +Jendhamuni Sos.
GEETHA R
Good Morning My Friend.
madhav reddy
THIS IS THE REALTHOUGHT OF LOVE
Ajay Agnihotri
Very nice sharing about loving and caring..thanks Jendhamuni..good night and tc
Will Wooten
To love someone is to try to live in their skin. The most powerful kind of love. Once again thanks Jendhamuni.
peetala swarna Kumar
Yes so..true madam ji
peetala swarna Kumar
Yes so..true madam ji
N Sekar
Emanate love with true understanding is the best philosophy to adhere to
Kishan Sondarva
+Jendhamuni Sos …very beautiful post…nice advise for lovers…!!!
Kallamveettil Backar
Good morning this scene very beautiful and romantic
Dhananjay Adwalia
So wonderful
Rajesh Verma
a wonderful advise for lovers
Sarady Kim
Bonjourj comment ça va, merci pou belle photo
Animesh nandi
the door of understanding is opening and everything
nice thoughts.. of aspiration..
good after noon to you///.
revathy anand
Its true
kannan vijaykannan
Sweetplace
raja nadeem
Very nice
lizbsness martin
So wonderful place….!!!!
jay yadav
KYA PANI BARAS RAHA HAI JI
sajid khan
Vav
Sarady Kim
Wow, je n'est pas lire la clé est la tolérèrent pour tous et ça Vien toute seul, Oui si non,,,!
Mayur Shah
Absolutely Right, Jen
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Nc 1
Malsha Magammanage
Wow beautiful place my dear friend
ada pereira da silva silva
muito bom isso,dá uma saudade…acho que é da minha infância.
Vikas Kumar
Nice
Bhagaban Panda
Very nice post sister jen
garylee joy
Yes, true love is unselfish. This is the love of God. Thank you for sharing Jendhamuni Sos my dear friend.
Carlos Bation
Good night jenh ..miss U hugs and kisses..Ingat my Lovely Lady
Elavanamanomohanan Mohanan
Yes.Jendhamuni #Sos#.
Asim Asimkmal
Nice frnd
Ahmet Mircan
💝
Terry Raven
there is no greater ruler than LOVE
rakesh vamne
Nice
Cambian Fernando
Please send your Skype Id
Ken Connor
LOVE AND TRUST AND SINCERITY are the 3 things in life we need to understand one another.,,,,
Imran Khan
Nice
omotoyinbo emmanuel
That is the most powerful things in world.Good point jen i luv that.