Nobody can say anything about you. Whatsoever people say
is about themselves. But you become very shaky, because
you are still clinging to a false center. That false center depends
on others, so you are always looking to what people are saying
about you. And you are always following other people, you are
always trying to satisfy them. You are always trying to be respectable,
you are always trying to decorate your ego. Rather than being
disturbed by what others say, you should start looking inside
yourself.  To know the real self is not so cheap. But people
are always hankering for cheap things.  ~Osho