No one wants to be bitter. It sneaks up on us. Bitterness is unforgiveness fermented. The more we hold onto past hurts the more we become drunk on our pain and the experience can rob us of the joy we can find in anything.
Bitterness occurs when we feel someone has taken something from us that we are powerless to get back. We hold on to the hurt in an attempt to remind ourselves and others of the injustice we’ve experienced in the hopes that someone will save us and restore what we’ve lost. Unfortunately, bitterness only makes our sense of the injustice grow. It does nothing to heal the wound caused by the injustice. In fact, it causes the wound to become infected with anger.
When we are hurt, we have a tendency to turn the painful events over and over in our head or tell anyone who will listen about our pain–even over and over again. It is fine to talk to people we think can help us heal the hurt, facilitate reconciliation or help us rebuild our lives, but other than that, we should do what we can to stop dwelling on the story of our injury ourselves and stop speaking of it so freely to others.
Source: Patheos
http://leelavadeeflower.blogspot.com/2014/10/healing-hurt-that-wont-go-away.html
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Wow ..interesting and inspiring post ..take UR time jenh need to rest ..praying for UR good health..hava a most peaceful day..
Thanks for these inspiring words. Good day Jen
Wow, so true. Very inspirational, thank you for sharing!
You are on a hat trick. I think you are in a very fine mood today Jendhamuni Sos.
Very beautiful post Jendhamuni..good morning.
Love the post, beautiful words n meaning Jen
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See everybody in the light of love& bless him
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Namaste' Jen , There not anyone that haven't experience pain The Creator of All feel pain of the way Ones treat each other without unconditional LUV . The Creator Forgive and Release Pain . That is why Forgiveness is so important . Unconditional LUV to All in this Moment……. Peace
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If we can't forgive and forget our wound will never heal.in whichever situation you go through we have to pray and by the end of the day you will make it.thanks.
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Good night jenh..see U tomorow..glad to meet in my dreams..have a pleasant day..
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+Jendhamuni Sos Thank you for your wise words dear sister; they are very true. Thank you for sharing Sis.
I know dat kinda of hurt
+Jendhamuni Sos
( Good Dear )
( good night )
Date 2/10/2014
Time 21:35: pm K,S.A
Great words.
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+Jendhamuni Sos
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( my Good Dear )
( good night )
Beautifully put.
u know my dear i like to walk raining time without umbrella because nobody see my tiers.don't show anything until oneday bitterness.hurtness.forgiveness everything eat u
So much wisdom! Thank you, Jendhumani. God bless you!
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Ever since I became a buddhist I never experienced bitterness, anger nor regret.
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