Accept the way you are, your personality, your mistakes, your looks, your humor, and foremost, yourself. If you have a vulgar sense of humor and you like it then who cares about some people who don’t. In other words, “be yourself” genuinely and then try to change if you truly want to. Take responsibility for your actions, mistakes and interests, basically all the good and bad things. For example, if you want to fix your anxiety problem then first of all “own it” and truly accept that you have an anxiety problem, and then try to fix it. ~wikiHow